Unstoppable

I’m a commercial junky,

I love inspiring commercial ads. I especially love the brand Always “like a girl” commercial campaign ads. I have linked a video to one of their campaign commercials in a previous post of mine. Here is another one with a great message that encourages women to keep persevering in their talents, hobbies, and dreams →

Yours truly,

L.D

Women objectified in the media

I remember very specifically,

A day when I was nine years old and taking a walk with my m0m at the mall. I asked her why women were often naked in ads. I proceeded to ask why men weren’t naked as often as women were, or never were at all. It’s not that my nine-year-old self wished to see naked men, on the contrary, I could not understand what of a woman’s body made it prone to being exposed in such a sexual way. I could not understand why women were constantly being disrespected in billboards, magazines, commercials, or store window displays.

How do people sell things these days?

By selling women of course. These days it is common to hear “sex sells”. It would be more accurate to say “a woman’s body sells”. What is the effect this has on young girls? Some will feel the need to look and act as sexual as the media shows them women should be. Others feel a woman’s job is to serve as eye-candy. Here is a link to the media’s most sexist ads, the ads young girls are constantly exposed to → http://www.scoopwhoop.com/inothernews/sexist-advertisements/

Yours truly,

L.D

“……like a girl”

Yes, I play, run, hit, fight, and walk like a girl because I AM a girl!

But why is “like a girl” supposed to be an insult? The amount of times I heard that growing up is unbelievable. Likewise, the effect it had on my performance is too. I felt self-conscious I was going to look too girly while playing sports, that a hint of my femininity was going to come out. I tried to imitate the boys to feel good enough about my capacities.

During the 2015 Super Bowl, the brand Always came out with a commercial addressing this common issue. It’s definitely worth the watch →

Yours truly,

L.D

Lack of an education

What if?

What if you weren’t able to go to school? What if you never learned how to read? What about write? You would have to go around the world with such limited knowledge that your opportunities for a better future would be lacking. Although many of us curse at those all-nighters and that “C” on the test we studied so hard for, school gives us the opportunity to take what we learn on the classroom and apply it to the real world. I’m not just talking about the lessons, I’m also talking about the skills gained while pursuing an education. School teaches us that if we work hard enough, we get results. It also gives us the chance to express ourselves, figure out what we want, what we like, and what we don’t. It gives us the tools to survive in the real world.

But what if we didn’t have this opportunity?

This is the reality of 65 million girls in the world, 65 million who do not attend school. 61% of the 123 million young who are illiterate happen to be women. Women around the world, especially in third world countries, are still taught that staying at home is their duty. They see their brothers walking out the door on their way to school while they are left behind, left behind clutching the broom to clean the floor, left behind to cook the chicken and the soup.

While the world has come far from the days when women’s education was illegal, the root of the problem still exists. Here is a link to an article talking more about the issue → http://empowermentinternational.org/2008/08/01/how-a-lack-of-education-adversely-affects-girls/

Yours truly,

L.D

HeForShe

About a year ago…

Emma Watson spoke out on gender inequality. Most of you have probably already read/heard her speech before, if not, I will leave a link down below of her U.N speech. As a United Nations ambassador, Emma decided to stand up not only for women, but for men too. Instead of focusing on the roles of women on feminism, she also talked about the unequal expectations for men. For years, feminism has been associated as a movement only for women. Watson made it clear that it is a movement meant for our male counterparts too. If the genders unite, the goal of equality will be achieved faster.  The 25-year-old ambassador was able to reach numerous demographics, something many feminist activists are unable to do.

“How can we affect change in the world when only half of it is invited or feel welcome to participate in the conversation?” -Emma Watson

I am a huge advocate for the HeForShe campaign. I think it is a way to look at feminism that is not touched upon often but is necessary to be taught. Here is the link to her U.N speech → http://www.unwomen.org/en/news/stories/2014/9/emma-watson-gender-equality-is-your-issue-too

These are some quotes from other HeForShe campaign conversations with the public → http://www.mtv.com/news/2099403/10-kickass-things-emma-watson-said-during-the-he-for-she-facebook-conversation/ and http://www.oystermag.com/the-seven-most-righteous-quotes-from-emma-watsons-he-for-she-speech

Yours truly,

L.D

 

 

What we are

We do not hate men

We do not believe we have to be in charge at all times.

We are not advocating for female supremacy.

We are not women who decide not to shave because men do not have to.

We do not want to flash our boobs at everyone.

We are not women who scream at men for holding the doors open for us because we believe they think we are too weak to do it ourselves.

We are not women who choose not to wear makeup because men do not have to.

We are not angry all the time.

But we are…

We are fighting to grant other women in the world the right to an education.

We are fighting to stop female infanticide. 

We are  fighting to stop domestic violence.

We are fighting to stop unequal wages.

Fighting because women are denied positions in the workforce due to them  considered not “capable” of handling it since they are females.

We are fighting to stop the constant sexual trafficking of women.

Fighting for equality.

Yours truly,

L.D

Why the bad reputation?

Why does feminism have a negative connotation?

A vast majority of the people who get asked about feminism will associate it directly to campaigns like the SlutWalk and Free the Nipple. Others associate it to FEMEN, a group of topless female activists founded in Ukraine. The goal of these campaigns and activists is to stop the over-sexualization of women’s bodies and  the spread of rape. While their intentions are more than okay, I can’t help but think that the way they are addressing the issue is out of place.

These movements use bare breasts as their main tactic to get the message across….

They are trying to stop the over-sexualization of the female body by utilizing nudity which, for me, lowers the dignity of a woman and it becomes counterproductive. It is scientifically proven that a man’s brain immediately considers a woman less intellectually capable when he sees her half-naked. This is a rather big issue considering that these women are trying to get respect from men by being topless.

A woman has the capability to get her point across without having to utilize her body as means for attention.

The real issues feminism is trying to solve (talked about in my last post) are being overshadowed by topless women who are taking over the true meaning of feminism. Something needs to be done to change that common response of “Me? A feminist? Pff no, no!” to a “HECK YES!” when women (and even men) are asked whether they support the movement or not.

More on how the male brain works when seeing a half-naked woman→ http://www.cnn.com/2009/HEALTH/02/19/women.bikinis.objects/

Yours truly,

L.D

 

Why Feminism?

What has caused the movement of Feminism?

Unequal rights that women have endured throughout the centuries has sparked the women’s liberation movement. Although the answer may seem obvious, how well-informed are you of the unequal occurrences happening around the world? I found two great articles talking about the issues women are facing at this present moment that I will link down below. It scares me to think about the unjust treatment women receive after all of the years people have spent combating the “women are inferior to men” mindset. Less income for the same job, domestic violence, or lack of education, whatever type of unjust treatment it may be, it is important to remind ourselves that it is  happening and is more common than you think. Feminism is here and it has a purpose. Although it receives plenty of criticism for appearing too radical, feminism was created to take a stand for issues that have been swept under the rug.  Feminism was created to inform the masses.

http://listverse.com/2008/11/20/10-extreme-examples-of-gender-inequality/

http://www.makers.com/blog/21-facts-you-never-knew-about-international-gender-inequality

Think about it….

Yours truly,

L.D